Healing Meditation for the New Year

posted by Reinhard on 18 December 2011

Christmas is a good time for us to connect with deeper and higher values and qualities. Christmas reminds us that the birth of something new is possible for all of us.

I should like to share with you a brief meditation that you can put together now in the Christmas period and then use regularly as a healing meditation throughout the next year.

Part One: Choosing a quality

Go through the following list of qualities and choose one that you would like to strengthen or develop within yourself next year. If, what is likely, you feel several qualities would be right, write each one on a piece of paper (but no more than 5), fold the papers and choose one randomly. Chances are that you will have picked the right one.

acceptance

awareness

beauty

clarity

compassion

courage

fearlessness

forgiveness

gentleness

grace

humility

joy

love

peace

simplicity

spontaneity

stillness

strength

surrender

tenderness

trust

vitality

wisdom

 

Part Two: Bringing the quality alive

Spend a few minutes remembering times, situations, people when that quality was present for you, however long ago, or however momentary that may have been. This way you are bringing the quality alive in your neuro-pathways. If you have never experienced the quality before, think of people, situations or events that represent the quality for you.

 

Part Three: The meditation

This brief meditation is excellent for centering, grounding, stress reduction. By adding on your chosen quality at the end you are slowly building the quality in your inner world and you are using the quality to help you with difficult situations and feelings.

 

Step 1: Awareness (1 minute)

Bring yourself into the present moment by deliberately adopting an erect and dignified posture. If possible, close your eyes. Then scan your inner world to see what is going on there right now. Bring your awareness to thoughts, feelings and physical sensations that are moving through your inner space. Observe, acknowledge and identify what is here. Maybe put into words what you find, eg, ‘a feeling of sadness is arising’ or ‘self-critical thoughts are there’.

 

Step 2: Gathering (1 minute)

Then gently redirect your full attention to breathing, following the full length of the in-breath and the full length of the out-breath. It may help if you put one hand on your lower abdomen and then follow the breath as it moves in the abdomen, allowing the breath to anchor you in the present moment, tuning in to a state of awareness and stillness.

To further help you focus on the breath you can also say ‘in’ to yourself as you breathe in and ‘out’ as you breathe out.

 

Step 3: Expanding (2 minutes)

Expand the field of your awareness around your breathing so that it includes a sense of the body as a whole. Experience your whole body breathing; feel the spaciousness of your whole body. Also become aware of the space that surrounds you, the room, town, country, even the whole planet with all its beings.

 

Continuing to say ‘in’ to yourself when you breathe in, and ‘out’ when you breathe out, become aware that you are breathing in the outside with the in-breath, and you are going out to the space that surrounds you with the out-breath.

 

Now remember your chosen quality. Become aware that the quality is all around you in the world, the universe, as energy and in a multitude of expressions over time and space. Take the energy of the quality in with the in-breath, saying its name to yourself. Imagine the quality permeating you, filling every cell of your body, flooding your mind. With the out-breath let go of all the blocks and resistances you may have against the quality, making more space for the quality to fill you with the next in-breath. Say ‘letting go’ to yourself on each out-breath.

 

In future, at odd times during the day, remember the quality and take a deep breath in, letting your whole being be filled with it, letting go of your worries and stresses with the out-breath.

 

 

DANCING WITH DARK CLOUDS

posted by Reinhard on 18 November 2011

It’s like a dark swiftly moving cloud,
blown across my mind,
by a wind that comes from way way back,
lifting me up, up and away,
away from my life right here right now,
and I forget who I am,
forget that I am not the dark cloud.

Sometimes the calm rhythm of my breathing
can catch the dark cloud,
and hold it, embrace it and dance with it,
and then I can feel the downpour
of cool refreshing rain
washing away my tears,
and my feet are back on the ground.

Reinhard Kowalski
 

 

 

Mindfulness and Economic Crisis

posted 30 October 2011 by Reinhard

We are worried about our well-being, our jobs, our bills, our standard of living. And it doesn't look like it will get better any time soon. Deep cracks are widening in our dominant system of greed and selfishness. The patching up efforts are looking less and less convincing, and global structural damage more likely.

Leonard Cohen sings "There is a crack in everything - that's where the light gets in". I am suggesting that mindfulness and other meditation practices could be part of that light(ness) in a situation that feels dark and heavy.

The anxiety that many of us are feeling and will probably feel more, is related to worries and uncertainty about the future. Ambiguity is the source of anxiety. Mindfulness teaches us to be more grounded in the present moment, something we lose touch with when we worry about the future. Being more grounded in the present moment will not make the future less ambiguous, but it will enable us to worry less and approach the future with more clarity and strength.

Secondly, meditation stimulates a deep place within ourselves from where we can experience a sense of one-ness with the whole of life, including our fellow humans. From that place, which according to spiritual traditions is located in the heart region, compassion and loving kindness grow and greed and selfishness are shown for what they really are – not only an affront to others but also damaging to our true human nature.

And thirdly, there is some evidence that groups of people meditating feeds positive energy into our ‘collective grid’ and may have the potential to put something good into our local communities.

So it may be a good time to start meditating now – for yourself, for others and for our future.
 

Spirituality and Politics

posted 1 November 2011 by Reinhard

Many meditation and spiritual approaches , in my experience, tend to ignore the political and social elements of life or they see them as concerns that are secondary to the ‘spiritual path’. I wrote about this in detail in my book The Only Way Out is In (Jon Carpenter, 2001). I am now beginning to sense a change there. For example, Swami Kriyananda of the Ananda Community has published an article entitled Economic Depression – A Solution (see www.ananda.it). Whilst not agreeing with all the points he makes, it is totally refreshing how he analyses the current economic situation from a perspective that is firmly rooted in the teachings of Paramhansa Yogananda.

And then there is this exciting development at St Pauls in London. Rather than blindly following the tabloid chorus of “get rid of those sandal-wearing and tree-hugging lay-abouts”, the church authorities have now chosen to engage with the concerns of the protestors. This is big! I am grateful for all the intense discussions that must have taken place in CoE circles to come to such a pastoral conclusion. And this on the day after Halloween. Is there a connection?

In a way this adds another perspective to my previous blog, which was about how the dynamics of meditation can help us to develop a collective consciousness. Here we are looking at how this can lead to morally and ethically sound action.
 

Future Courses

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Learn Mindfulness Meditation in Andalucia, Spain. Mindfulness Intensive Meditation for stress reduction and healing Date: 23-30th September 2012 Location: La Canada, Andalucia, Spain Mindfulness meditation, adapted for the West in the form of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive...

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One-day Mindfulness Meditation Workshop A further one-day workshop in Chesham, Bucks. is planned for early next year. Please contact me if you are interested.    

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AIT BASICS TRAUMA SKILLS SEMINAR December 9th – 11th 2011 9am – 6 pm London Friday - Sunday with Reinhard Kowalski and Ruthie Smith These AIT (Advanced Integrative Therapy) Seminars offer three day experiential and...

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